Ask An Angel
People are always searching for that perfect mate–their soul mate. Unfortunately, too often we begin with the last things first–their physical appearance. There is a whole lot more to it than that!
Donna wrote: I am having a difficult time trying to decide between two men I care about! Just need a little advice.
Many readers may say, “I should have your problem!”
Raphael says that there are four legs of compatibility upon which a relationship can stand: 1) a soul connection; 2) intellectual compatibility; 3) no emotional baggage; and 4) (and the last to be considered!) physical attraction.
Can you speak freely about your beliefs and spiritual goals? Are you both interested in the same kind of books, or at least in reading books? Do you enjoy a good discussion or is it one-sided–you listen; he talks? Is he free of emotional baggage or are there strings attached to his heart?
And lastly, are you physically attracted? Too often the last is tested first–in the physical package and then in the bedroom, which puts a commitment of intimacy on the relationship before the other three legs have even been explored, causing a wobbly, unstable relationship.
Use these measuring sticks for your two men and see which one rises to the top. Ask the archangels to help you choose the one who will be a helpmate for your highest good as part of the divine plan for your life. Then, gently and kindly release the other person. We encourage you to let go of fear and doubt and trust in the divine love and guidance that is always ready to come to you.
Betty Rae and Raphael
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